Love????evil or divine

Love is patient love is kind.
Iv heard about love from so many sources so many experiences and so many scriptures.
Is love really that beautiful.
So much hurt in the name of love.
So many hearts broken in the name of love.
Love is that one driving force which makes people go against each other. Makes kids hate their parents.
Makes man and women have the worst battle fought outside a battlefield.
So how can this love be divine if it has the power to hurt people?
How can it be sacred if it can bring out the worst in us?

I look at this beautiful emotion and search deeper.
 Why is love so dual?. On one hand it can make a dead man alive and give him reason to live and on the other hand it can destroy the person or make them crazy or destructive.
Its like power. Like petrol. Like fuel.
It could be productive or destructive.
So how does love happen? How do we explain our connection to some instantly and our disconnection with some we've lived with our whole life.
Love is a force, an energy. Its a vibration that each one of us have and emit. We vibrate with this love energy and when we find this energy being one with another vibration we connect. This connection can be so fulfilling. The feeling of oneness is so blissful. Even if ur miles apart you can feel the strong wave of its subtleness hit your solar plexus and make your very existence alive and your solar plexus churn.
 As beings of love when we connect with the other side of our energy or our other half we vibrate with harmony. We r in perfect balance- ying and yang. This love is divine. Very rarely do we come across the same frequency. When the frequency is right everything else will be upside down. Why?
The journey of the soul is to find our frequencies work through this path through the ups and downs and see if the love remains. To see if the love is strong enough to go through all the trials of life.
The ultimate purpose of the soul is to unite with its other half. And the journey of life can be made beautiful in that quest or painful in the loss.
Because love is a vibration from the inner dimensions of our consciousness it can oftenly give us pain. We may hold on to it inspite of the pain. The connection of love is from the root. like the roots of the tree. And then it permeates on the physical mental and emotional.
Dig deeper. Connect and never let a soul connection pass you by.


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The Real Love

Love is patient, love is kind, these are words about love from the bible.
The kind of love that can move you to tears when its felt. The love from god the love from our angels.
Can human beings love like that?
Our human world is a feeling world.
Love is simple but in the human world its all complicated.
There are stages.
First its the phase of feelings and attraction.
Where everything about the person we love, is so perfect. Every habit every virtue every kiss every gesture. Everything is appreciated.
This is highest phase of all.
 Whatever love or affection is given is perceived as wow.
I call it the wow phase.
This wow phase is very short. Some people are capable of pulling it longer. The most love is percieved at this phase. Because everything is wow. It is percieved as real or true love. So the experience is heightened.
When the wow phase is ending, the second phase starts. The beginning of real love.
The phase when both people get emotionally close. This is also combined with the wow phase. But this phase is short and also nice. At the end of this phase the trouble starts.
The egos take over or the test of love is presented by the universe.
The fights or disagreements have begun by now.
Both argue fight and disagree. The passion is getting lost. Feelings go out the window and the pain begins.
Both people disagree or fight about stuff.
This creates a divide or the couple may be able to live with the differences.
This is the test of true love.
Love is not about the feelings. Its not about the first few months. Love is about when the fights start. Can both people accept each other as is??
Can both understand each other???
Can there be complete freedom of expression and who we are???
Can there be compatibility???
Can the love hold all of the crap. Can one still hold on to the love and accept.
To me, acceptance is pure love.
Can we allow the othr to be who they are in their most self expressed form.
Can we grant people to be who they are??
Can we love them for the ups and the downs and have the courage to say it??

Love is acceptance.it is accepting the good bad and ugly. When this fight phase starts the fights and resentment starts. The same wow person becomes the person who gives the most pain. This is the test of love. If a couple passes this phase they usually accept anything that comes by. Their bond gets strong. Usually people who r in a relationship based on feelings end here.
Its a test for endurance and strength.

 

Sheila Bajaj

 

 

Numbness

Sometimes life is so chaotic and yet so silent. This is not a good silence I'm talking about. I'm taking about numbness.
Sometimes we go thrrough so much pain we turn numb.
Pain can be so continous, u feel it again and again and again more and more and it doesn't stop. And at one point we reach the end of pain. We are empty. And numb.
Numb should be good. Since its the end of the pain path. but numbness can't be good, its the beginning of a no feeling state of being.
All our life we feel and feel and feel. And then we hurt and hurt. And at the end of the hurt path we reach numbness. We seize to feel. We start living on auto pilot. My favorite word. Its so easy to snap into autopilot. The mind and heart and body doesn't wanna feel pain. So it goes numb and dead. And we just function and live life everyday.like machines. We exist. But we have no life. What a pathetic place to be in.
Does being numb prevent us from getting hurt. Is that numbness good? The phase where we seize to feel. Feel anything. Feel love feel joy feel alive.
Numbness can't be good. We all turn numb, but being numb or hard doesn't make us happy. We stop living in the experience if live. We forget what happiness and feeling is. We stop experiencing love. We don't connect to god we don't connect to ourselves and we dry up. It feels like the soul is dead.
What makes the soul so alive. What makes us happy and drives us crazy.
Its love.
Love has the potwer to transform something dead and give it life. Give it feeling once again. Make it breathe. Give it a purpose. Give it hope. Give it a meaning.
How many of us gave up. And dried up. And then came love, pure love. And it changed our soul and our reality.
Transformed the consciousness of that being. Connected us back to the source. To the consciousness. Could this love be an awakened state of existence.
I look at this love as being divine. Its only divine energy that can transform something dead into life.
Love has that power.
Then what makes that same love convert the joy into pain. Does love have the power to create pain too??
Yes it does. Love is always attached to an expectation. A fear. When love is attached to fear it creates an expectation.
This creates pain.
Pain is born from fear.
Fear is consuming and frightening. The fear of loosing love. And that creates another swirl of pain and then we walk the path of agony and wounds. The pain that stems from pure love and then fear is the worst of the kind. Its worse than the pain of not having at all.
but fear needs to be removed. There is no right answer of how fear of loosing can be removed. Fear is like poison. It consumes us and kills the happiness love gives us. Fear is like a deadly virus. Once fear is transformed into faith. We can feel love again. And even if there is pain or shades of hurt, it feeds the soul. It makes us wanna live the journey, not fear the outcome.

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