Only the loss of love can show us true love.
Love is that vibration which connects two souls, the energy which flows between channels of relationships. All emotions root from love. Even hatred. We feel cause we love. We all are love. Love in different degrees, but love.
There are different flavors of love, mother and child, friends and lovers. But the purest form of love is the mother and child. The protection kind of love. I am there for you and will love you no matter what. Unconditional to some sense. A feeling of” I created you”.
When two partners face a problem with each other. They need to become a parent. Love your partner like you would love a child. This is healing to the giver and the receiver.
The most soothing energy. Then two partners can build the most profound connection of all, the umbilical chord connection which can be stronger than a soul mate relationship.
Love is not just a feeling. It’s the bond between the creator and us. Can we create a bond like that with our partners. Creator and child or mother and child. If we can. Love can be experienced, felt and lived. I love you mom.
There are so many emotions in which we live. Emotions rarely live in us. There are usually much larger than us. So there are so many of these emotions in which we live. We become our emotions and feelings. When love as a feeling rules us, we become love, then hatred takes over then we become Hatred. Then joy rules then anger, as so it continues..
When we live inside emotions, they pass. We are small. They are bigger. So they run our feelings. Which come and go. We have no control. Be in control.
Act. Be. Don’t allow a feeling to guide you.
Make love your guide.
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I missed much important post to be commented. Yes the relationship between the mother and child is possibly closest to the unconditional love. Taking help from Kahlil Gibran
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Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
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No matter, the love for a creation exceeds the self love of a person.
Talking of love between the partners, there needs to be lot of space for love to grow, again to take reference from Gibran,
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You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.
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The relationship between a giver and receiver can be most profound of all the relationships, reflecting the true unpoisoned soul of humanity. But again any efforts to balance the give and take creates conditionality.
Some of the souls bond better than the others. For some to sustain love, takes lot of effort. For some souls the sustainance may not require conscious effort. The relationship will grow by its own as both the partners evolve separately in their lives. In some relationships, the partner becomes complementary of the other. This just withers the love, as the individuality of each person is destroyed . There is nothing to left to love in the other. All the responses have already been programmed.
Then there do exists souls which can be called soulmates. Most of us never know if we will ever meet our soulmates. It is easier to discard the theory of soulmates, but those who have found their soulmate can truly call it the most profound experience. It is indeed very profound , as it can be luck from the million lifetimes.
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