Sunday, June 20, 2010

TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS- Soul mates and Twin souls

Toxic relationships
What are toxic relationships??

There are some relationships that give us more pain than happiness. These relationships are not built on the foundation of love, acceptance and the other virtues. These toxic relationships are draining and addictive.
They are so difficult to let go. The dependency factor in these relationships are very high.
The relationship or the person acts as a parasite.
The hunger and the void never gets filled.
These relationships lack laughter, they lack joy and fulfillment.
They don't enrich the soul, they deplete it.
A relationship should never be a struggle.
A toxic relationship is struggle from day 1.
It ends with chords that are too painful to cut.
These bonds cause turmoil and don't even get the support of the gods and angels. Parental support in these relationships is minimal and closest friends will be the loudest signs and voices screaming at you to stay away from the other.

Toxic relationships are easy to recognize, they make us feeling helpless, reciprocation imbalance always exists.
Men and women get into these relationships with a person who has very less regard or love for them.
It is a mere attraction that brought both close.
The best thing to do if you realize that you are in one of these relationships is to stop right there and think.
Break cut or burn the chord.
Be in power and don't wait for your toxic partner to dump you because that is most likely to happen around the corner.
When you take a call yourself, the pain is a lot less.

A blessed relationship doesn't need as much effort.
Love is about loving without playing the games.
Love is about knowing you will be safe and protected.
As ordinary as it is a twin soul relationship will see you through your lows and highs.
Accept every ridiculous bone in you and understand you through all the changes you go through.
The bond between twin souls is so sacred and healing.
It allows us and grants us the gift of freedom. The freedom to be and to exist. Our twin soul allows us to grow, nourishes our roots and makes us grow.
Feeds our confidence and is that breath of fresh air.
He or she can make you laugh on the gloomiest days.
You can spend hours talking to them or sit in silence for hours and not say a thing.
Feel each others heartbeat while listening to an intense song.

Or just be random and talk random.
Twin souls are supportive, loving, affectionate and honest. They are living angels and continue being the best emotional anchors forever.
They make the best partners and a marriage with your twin soul can be your dream come alive.
I know 5 couples who married their twin soul.

4 comments:

Harish said...

Wow. Problems of human relationships looked at with such focus.
Its true and so good to read. Your take on toxic relationships. Its true. Iv been through it and so have friends i know.

Its the truth of life.

Jai ho.

Lovely writing

om shanti
God Bless you dear.

Minx said...

Very very thoughful Sheela. I am going thru one now, and I can relate to it totally.

Keep up with these research. It will help millions.

God Bless

Minx

Anonymous said...

First part is fine as you say. The second part of blessed relationship: is it not too perfect for its existence?
Have you found such relation yourself? Blessed five couples are fine from a perspective.
I will say that I have not found a single couple as blessed as you say.
The problem is that you treat life in black and white, good and evil.
It is not like that, most of the life is grey, you are grey, I am grey and so is everyone.
Black and white exist for perception.

Nisha said...

Hi Sheela,

i totally loved what you have written about Toxic relationship. I just faced a messy break up and finding it difficult to get over. The past memories keep haunting back and maes it impossible for me to move on and look ahead and start new life. Very strengely some days are fine but some days are worst.

I realized my relationship was probably a toxic relationship coz it has all the signs that you have described still it is hell difficult to get over that completely.

I have come to your centre and have started meditation and i am hoping it will help.

I look forward to meeting you.

Thanks you for this wisdom that you spread and help people.

God bless.
Nisha