Sheila Bajaj

How Is a reading Going to help me?

2011-09-26T22:41:00.000-07:00

Thousands of people seek advice guidance and answers from me. Sometimes the answers are crystal clear and sometimes the quest is what will take them to the next level.

When people come to me for a Tarot session, most of them come as a last resort. they have tried everything, astrology, poojas homas , vastu.

They go from one astrologer to the other asking the same question but in vain.

Why dont they get their answers or why doesnt that remedy solve their problem. Maybe the problem wasn't in their astrology to start with.

People ask me how a reading will help them.
Will I get a remedy to my problem.
So I decided to explain the process of my reading to make a client understand my approach.
I seriously discourage people who come out of Curiosity.
A session would be a complete waste of Time and Money.
Only someone who has a health concern visits a doctor.
Similarly, a person should come for a reading only when they have a problem or are standing on cross roads.

I believe each tool or each system contributes to a percentage of the big picture.

1.Astrology, Planets contribute to 20% of a persons problem.

When i see a planetary block, i prescribe a precious stone, a temple visit, or a yantra.
Medical Astrology also gives an indepth remedy for chronic problems like , infertility, unemployment, business stagnancy, health problems, diabetes etc.

2. Earth Luck- i.e Vaastu or Feng Shui contribute to another 20% of a persons life.

I look at the floor plan of a persons house and analyse the areas of trouble.
The space in which a person lives speaks of the problems and situations they are in.
Corrections are then suggested.
This is a generic and basic analysis of the feng shui, if one wants more details can be provided to enhance energies as well.

3. Karma- karma is a big part of our life path. lets say karma is also a 20%. But in lots of cases Karma counts for 40%.

In cases of karmic blocks, I see what kind of karma a person has, there are no magic pills to negate the effects of karma. But there are ways to slowly deal with it.
Karma release is done for clients when they are receptive and if they have gone through a process of healing their energy , body and mind.
Karmic Sankalpas are also suggested to attract good karma and negate negative karma.

4.Energy- personal energy, healthy chakras and aura. 20-40%

A persons chakras and energy is another big part to their life experiences.
If a person is at a - (minus) negative level of energy, they will attract only similar experiences.
For eg. If a person has cow dung smeared on them, they will attract only flies.

A series of cleansing and healing sessions are recommended to bring the person back to 0 and then take them to plus levels in their energy.
Its as simple,e as washing of the cow dung and having a bath after which perfume is applied.

Positive energy then attracts them to the right relationship or career path.

Crystals, runes and talismans are suggested to boost p the energies of a person. to accelerate the pace of a persons growth or vibrations. Its like adding energy boosters to the petrol.

5. Numerology and Name- This is another important aspect of a persons experiences. Some numerologists agree that this is 50% of what a person experiences. The date of Birth, the persons name has certain vibrations. Read more on Numerology to nderstand it deeper.
If a person has a malefic date of birth or name, it could take them down a path of struggle and strife.

If we see a glitch in a name or the date of birth, a name correction is suggested.

I usually look at a persons life from a holistic view. I never approach any problem only through Tarot or Feng Shui or Numerology.
All of is like a a jig saw puzzle that create the big picture.

6.Free Will- This is the most powerful aspect of all.

If one has all aspects in order but doesn't have determination , optimism and powerful choices. None of the above aspects will assist them.
The most powerful tool god has given us , is our WILL.

Tarot can only help us see what we cant see about our present and future.
it doesnt predict the future.
it shows us the things we can do to correct the negatives, the blocks, the area that needs help and the actions one must take.
if one is confused as to which business, career or relationship is righ for them, tarot helps reason out and gives clarity for the person to then make their choices.
Its like a mirror, it helps us see what is already there.

I also say its like switching on a light in a dark room. That clarity will help us make the right decisions and choices.
In the process of giving that guidance a lot of predictions will show up. But predictions are not the goal of tarot.

Marriage

2011-09-18T19:21:00.000-07:00

The union of two souls. When two become one. The vow to be with each other for lifetimes. The vows taken around the sacred fire, Marriage.
What has marriage turned into from what it is idealised to be?
Why was marriage created?

I dwell in these questions each day as I grapple with clients who come by the dozens with their deep dark secrets and share their scandalous stories.
From the series of flings to a friend with fringe benefits or the mysterious father to their child. Iv heard it all.
The love triangles and quadrangles don't surprise me anymore.

My job demands me to be objective.
But I sit in the face of this social issue which is contaminating society and ask. Why is this happening.
Marriage was created for some reason, but why is it being breached?
I also have a whole lot of expat clientele and firangs from out of the country who regularly consult with me on the phone, but the extramarital relationship culture isn't as much with them. Why?
We always felt the west was spoiling our morale and didn't have a very good value system or culture.
How come our ex Marital rel stories are more scandalous than theirs.
Something to ask ourselves.

Our culture survives on the Mask theory. Pretend, wear ur mask and judge others who falter.
Everyone is cheating and no one wants to admit it.
Its bad to get divorced or leave ur spouse when the marriage is dead- because of society, but its somehow ok to cheat.
Which is why people slip. They are too afraid to face the societies remarks and family pressure and hence choose to live dual lives. There is too much at stake to be yourself or walk out of a troubled relationship.

Whatever happened to the sanctity of marriage?
Where did we loose it all.
In the midst of rituals, a culture rich in values, we started pretending so much that we have now merged with the mask we wear and are frightened to live our truth.
When there is no room for truth, lies and deception is the only path to take.

Maybe the reasons we get into a marriage, must be relooked at. People marry at a certain age just because that's the right thing to do that that age, have kids coz that's what we all do.
Awareness of why we r doing it and what we want out of marriage. select a companion and friend for life with understandfing acceptance, truth, trust and compatibility is better than blindly looking at family back ground caste and religion.

Stay true to ur self and ur truth. Don't marry for the wrong reasons. And if u have, invest in the relationship to make it work. If its causing too much pain, build the courage to walk out. Don't worry about the kids who will miss out on one parent.
Atleast they get the best of both happy parents even though apart.

The most important message is to live your truth.

Tarot Card Reading

2011-09-18T19:16:00.000-07:00

What must one do before a reading

One must prepare a list of questions that they want to ask during the reading. This helps one get clarity and those answers are somehow revelaed in the reading even before they ask. Without a list of questions or a need for a reading, no insights are are revealed.

How often can one get a Tarot reading

There is no stipulated time period for getting a reading done. But once every 3 or 6 months is fine.
Getting a reading should be more need based.

How is our reading different from other Tarot Readers.

A tarot reading is usually very clinical and rarely looks at other factors influencing a problem. An astrologer will look only at the planets , a vaastu expert only at the space and a numerologist only at the numers name and date of birth.
In our reading all aspects and influences are studied and a remedy is given from all disciplines.
If the date of birth has a glitch, a name correction is suggested.
If there is an imbalance in the energy at home or office a feng shui remedy is suggested. And if one has a low element , a crystal is suggested.
We use a multiple therapy approach for diagnosing and remedies.

Can one be helped if they choose not to get a reading

Yes, There are loads of people who do not believe in a reading and just want to resolve a pattern in their life, struggle, ill health, bad relationships or depression.
Our center is not just a tarot or divination center, it is a healing center as well.
People come directly for healing and get the same output without a reading.

Is Tarot safe?

Tarot is as safe as going to a holy place. As a tarot reader we only channel divine guidance to clients. We channel divine wisdom and help people find a remedy to their problem. In the process of the reading, the client releases a lot of blocks and there is a huge release of energy. Post the reading, clients only feel ligher and happier. They usually go back full of hope and optimism.
Tarot is like switching on a light in a dark room. We get to see things with clarity and can make our decisions with the clarity of the outcome.

What Is Numerology

2011-09-18T19:13:00.000-07:00

Numerology

What is numerology

Numerology is the study of the symbolism of numbers. It is used to determine a person’s personality, strengths and talents, obstacles, inner needs, emotional reactions and ways of dealing with others. Whether you use numerology to examine your life, take advantage of unexplored opportunities, confirm your talents or simply figure out where to go next, numerology can be a penetrating tool that helps you understand yourself and loved ones better. Numerology presents the whole picture, revealing all the diverse parts of your personality and how they come together to create the person you are. With this complete view, you are able to make the most of your strengths.

How does this work?

Everything in the universe vibrates at its own particular frequency. By finding the vibration rate of any object, you can establish the qualities and energies associated with it. By applying the principles of numerology -- and using only a name and birth date as the basic data -- you can determine the major frequencies of a person. A numerological analysis of the calculated frequencies provides significant information on personality and character.

How does a date of birth affect a persons life and personality

Using numerology, you can discover your strengths and weaknesses, inner needs, emotional reactions, and ways of dealing with others, as well as your talents. You can help yourself by becoming aware of your own character and learning to understand and deal with others -- for example, family, friends, lovers, employers and employees. You can even find out what kind of potential energy and what types of stress currently exist in your life, and in the lives of those around you.

If you are an employer, numerology is a great way to see if someone has the innate abilities to fulfill your job requirements. In fact, numerology can help you to better understand anyone you work with, and with this new understanding, it becomes possible to improve difficult work relationships. Numerology can also be used to determine the best times to marry, change jobs, move, speculate and take a trip.

Whether you use numerology to examine your life, take advantage of unexplored opportunities, confirm talents that in your heart you know are there, or simply figure out where to go next, numerology can be a penetrating tool to help you better understand yourself and the ones you love most. Numerology gives you the whole picture, allowing you to see the all the diverse parts of your personality and how they uniquely come together to make the person you are. Through this complete view, you are able to make the most of your strengths in a way that wasn’t possible before.

Magical Crystals

2011-09-18T19:07:00.000-07:00

What Is Himalayan Natural crystal?

It is a tool for understanding ourselves and our lives. Like other sciences, it is based on observation and its theories stand up against the test of reality.
When To Use Himalayan Natural Crystals?

Anytime you want to: plan any important event attract a new relationship, attract someone whom you want to love, explore personal growth ,understand any relationship make better informed decisions ,change your residence ,make financial decisions .find a lost object , form a partnership and start a business The list is endless. Why Use Himalayan Natural Crystals?
Because it works
Invoke the Light of the God with Himalayan Natural Crystals, is clear and perfect channel. Himalayan CLEAR CRYSTALS - The basic and final healing tool of every healer for intensive healing, energy amplification, psychic surgery. Negativity cleaning & balancing SURYA (SOLAR) POWER
CRYSTAL. REIKI, CRYSTAL HEALERS, ASTROLOGERS, TARORT READERS, SPIRITUAL HEALERS, Energy Healer, Aroma Experts ,Angel Experts, Physic Readers and FengShui, ENHANCERS Crystals have been used as magical tools for thousands of years, and their ability to soot he and cure match the all therapists ideas perfectly. This brand new feature of the well-known all alternative experts Professional program now brings these techniques together - so you can use the power of your Crystals in cures and enhancers.
Himalayan Natural Crystals have been valued as building materials for ornamental objects, crystals are another source of exciting possibilities for the future and healing without medicines. On very low cost against other gem stones.
During healing the Himalayan crystals become crystalline light forms, emitting subtle energies that balance our subtle bodies.
Attuning to Himalayan crystals open the mind, help us listen to what the crystal conveys through pictures, sounds or feelings. They reflect light back into the dark and help us to understand ourselves, resolve our issues
During healing/uses the Himalayan crystals become our subtle bodies.
· Difference of Himalayan (Himachal Crystals) and other rest of world mines, all the result clear that the Himalayan Crystal is much more powerful against the other mines in world
Himalayan Natural Crystals are help to study the other people.
· Use of Himalayan Crystal is providing the much more results than required in the therapies.
· In case of tension for quick relief hold the crystal in your hands and take 3 deep breaths and start counting 1 to 10, this will help you to get rid thoughts and feel relaxed. Repeat the process 3 to 4 time.
·In case of mental problem and feeling weakness. lie down somewhere quietly and take 3 to 4 deep breaths place a natural shaped crystal under your feet ,on your head and hold in hands, start counting 1 to 10 this will help you to unblock issues, help to resolve old hurt, deep relaxation and you feel energetic. Repeat the process 3 to 5 time.
·To build your life force energy. Such as power breathing. Then hold the natural shaped crystal between the thumb and forefinger in your both hands Breathe in slowly through the nose and try to count 1 to 10 if possible, breath out slowly and forcefully through nose on crystal. Repeat the process 5 to 7 time regularly twice in day.
· The Crystal/Quartz is the only stone in universe which moves according to time of universe.
Wearing of crystal give protection and energy.
· The person wearing/using other stone must wear natural shaped crystal with other stone to improve the power of other stone & to avoid the side effect of other stone.
· The experts of Reiki, Crystal healers, Feng-shui experts, etc felt more powerful vibrations in Himalayan Crystal.
· Himalayan crystal clears the chakras less than half time
· Used in meditation to balance the mind, develop intuition in seconds after mediation place the Himalayan crystal on the 3rd eye and ask the questions and what is relayed back to you
· Placed under the pillow for prophetic dreaming
· Used for healing purposes
· Emotional controls
· To control physical imbalance and healing
· Use in rituals and ceremonies for much better results and happiness
.Himalayan Natural Crystal provides a quick and effective balancing the energy system.
.Himalayan Natural crystals provide an effective aid to spiritual and personal development.
The human body is series of energy systems. Himalayan Natural Crystal are device for adjusting, balancing and boosting these systems.
· Children wear for balancing and healing
· Install big clusters of crystals for better future and events
· Create natural crystal grid for manifesting goal, absent healing
· Use natural shaped crystal for protection of one’s energy field
· Use crystal TO CREATE ELIXIRS
· Placed around plants for balancing and healing
· Himalayan crystal touching the body normalize the blood circulation in no time
· Clean and charged Himalayan crystal normalized body temperature in minuets
· Himalayan crystals help those who are being healed to tap into their own inner source of power and spirituality, enabling positive changes to occur with their bodies and their lives
· For those that are open and do not have many blockages can use Himalayan crystals altered states of consciousness and vision the past and or future.
· The purpose of Himalayan crystal is to assist those with they work to neutralize and remove negative energy, and replace it with positive energy and thought forms.
· Install the crystal cluster in area of black corner in home shops office, factory, warehouse etc.
· Himalayan natural crystal, Clusters are used by many to remove negativity, promote harmony and co-operation with your environment, for this reasons the crystal cluster are excellent to keep on your desk or in each room of house.
· Install 2 small clusters in window and door to avoid negative powers.
· Installing a cluster in vehicles save from accident, due to crystal driving person is more alert, due to alertness of driver wear and tear of vehicle is less and average of vehicle also improves
· Give the Natural Crystal Cluster Gift to the person, whom you want a favour, after cleaning and charging the crystal for the object. Each one crystal cluster is unique.
· Installing 2.5 Kg Crystal Cluster (single piece or equivalent to your lucky number) in home, office, factory, clinic or in shops in glass utensils, would increase the prosperity and high moral.
· Crystal cluster is radiate energy into the area around them and can also used to absorb negative energy.
· One of other main uses of crystal cluster is to enhance the overall energy level of room or area.
· Use the Crystal Cluster to clean/charge/recharge the other crystal.
· Use the crystal cluster for the expanding the mind to touch the spirit world.
· Cluster are used for enhance harmony and cooperation, help the life force to be
Positive, meditation, healing, study the other peoples, and cleaning and emerging the patients
· Keep 2 natural shaped single tip Crystal on office chair, study chair, prayer chair or bed for strengthen of the confidence and to improve the memory along with personality.
· Use double terminated Crystal as wand usage of this Crystal proved you much more result.
· at one side single tip and multi tip on other end Crystal most power full than main shaped wand/pendulum/pendant
· Double terminated Crystal if used as a pendulum/pendant the result on very higher against man shaped pendulums/pedants.
· Himalayan crystal prevent the earth quake for example around 1905 Himachal faced heavy earthquake major area of Himachal Pradesh was destroyed except the hills containing crystal.
· No spiritual activity is performed without the shadow of crystals
· The acupressure therapist used single or double terminated , Crystals instead of pointer. With the help of crystal they easily found right point, because the crystal attracts the blood vessels in no

Spiritual Doctor.. All About Tarot

2011-07-22T02:05:00.000-07:00

Tarot

What is Tarot?
How does it help?

Every Choice we make leads us to a different future. Destiny is a combination of our lifes plan, souls path, karmas, learning lessons, free will and rewards.
80% of life is Destiny but there is a powerful 20% of free will involved in the path of our life which can change the entire 80%.
Tarot Is a tool of Psychic Divination that helps us on a deeper level see the many cross roads in life and help us make the right decision.
When a person comes for a reading, the tarot helps us diagnose the root caus of the problem anf the block in the individuals life.
The block that makes everything else fall apart.
The tarot will then show what a person needs and the reader recommends a series of remedies to remove the block,
Clinically tarot talks about the current scenario and possible outcome.
We can compare that to a doctor who looks at his patient and say “ oh too bad you have cancer or you have an infection” diagnose is one part of the process.
The solution and the healing of the problem is a big part.

What can one expect from a session

Tarot helps identify the current situation in their life and a detailed list of what can be done to resolve it.
Tarot is not meant to predict the future, It is used to guide person with decisions and hep see the problem and resolve it energetically or karmically.

Will a reading help me solve my problem.

A reading will only help diagnose and see reality with clarity. Sometimes seeing the situation in clear light helps us mentally deal with life better.
But on an energy level, the reading does not cure or solve the problem. One has to follow through the advice given in the session

Who shouldn’t get a reading

People who are skeptics are a clear NO. People who come for a reading who are sceptic get nothing from the session. Their skeptism blocks the divine flow of wisdom that needs to reach them. People with doubt, or a pessimistic attitude have never benefited from any divination reading.
Its as simple as trying to pour water into a bottle with a lid on it. Nothing gets inside.
It just spills over.
People who want to get a reading out of curiosity also never get anything from a session.

A reading must be something we turn to only when in need and when we are willing to go through the healing process which the reader recommends.

What must one do before a reading
One must prepare a list of questions that they want to ask during the reading. This helps one get clarity and those answers are somehow revelaed in the reading even before they ask.

How often can one get a Tarot reading

There is no stipulated time period for getting a reading done. But once every 3 or 6 months is fine.
Getting a reading should be more need based.

How is our reading different from tarot readers across.

A tarot reading is usually very clinical and rarely looks at other factors influencing a problem. An astrologer will look only at the planets , a vaastu expert only at the space and a numerologist only at the numers name and date of birth.
In our reading all aspects and influences are studied and a remedy is given from all disciplines.
If the date of birth has a glitch, a name correction is suggested.
If there is an imbalance in the energy at home or office a feng shui remedy is suggested. And if one has a low element , a crystal is suggested.
We use a multiple therapy approach for diagnosing and remedies.

In short a reading is like going to a spiritual doctor. Where the root cause of disease or discord is diagnosed. and remedies or a course of action is prescribed.

Can one be helped if they choose not to get a reading

Yes, There are loads of people who do not believe in a reading and just want to resolve a pattern in their life, struggle, ill health, bad relationships or depression.
Our center is not just a tarot or divination center, it is a healing center as well.
People come directly for healing and get the same output without a reading.

Is Tarot safe?

Tarot is as safe as going to a holy place. As a tarot reader we only channel divine guidance to clients. We channel divine wisdom and help people find a remedy to their problem. In the process of the reading, the client releases a lot of blocks and there is a huge release of energy. Post the reading, clients only feel ligher and happier. They usually go back full of hope and optimism.

Question Answers

2010-07-30T00:06:00.000-07:00

Dear Sheila,
Why do i keep attracting painful relationships? Every guy i date ends up hurting me. There may be a reason for this repeated pattern. When will I meet the right guy? How do I keep the painful relationships away. and Why me??

Anuradha( name changed)

Hi Anuradha,
Im in the process of writing your answer. Meanwhile Id suggest you read the post on toxic relationships and the school of life.
There may be a few answers there.
My reply will then make more sense to you.

Love and Light,
Sheila Bajaj

www.sheilabajaj.com

Hi Anu,

When we go through painful relationships, and get hurt we have bruises within us that need to heal..
I simply compare that to being at a level 3 and taking an elevator to a lower level.
now after this pain u get into one more painful experience and go few floors lower.
After going througha series of painful friendships and relationships you are probably at level -3 or -5.

When your at a low level of existence you will attract lower vibrations..
When you are not yet healed you are sending pain vibes and thats the reason your attracting more pain into your life.

The key to break this pattern is to let the old wounds heal..
You are carrying baggage and triggers from the past that arent allowing you to attract abundance joy and love.
Once you are healed, thats what you will radiate and thats what you will attract.

What really happens is slowly the healing takes you from -5 to level 12. And thats where the right man will be waiting for you.
because deep down you are a level 12..

Healing can be achived through several techniques..
Reiki, Pranayama, meditation, Pranic Healing, and Imvussa Meditation.
These are just some techniques from the many avaialble..

I wish you love and happiness.

Love and Light
Sheila Bajaj.

For others who would like to post their questions, this section is not for taror or psychic reading.
This is a wisdom column, where I meditate on the question and post the answer.

The School of Life

2010-07-29T22:11:00.001-07:00

What is the School of Life??

Through the numerous enquiries of life and the intricacies of relationships or life's struggles, iv questioned the model that the universe uses.
There must be a guideline as to why we struggle, why we face difficulties and why we go through the pain threshold of the same thing happening over and over again.

So I question all of this, and the answers take me back to school.
I call it now the school of life.

It now seems like everything that we did in school has a repetition in the real world.
The school system has everything that real life has.
Concepts of learning lessons, difficult people, relationships, karma and even the times when we feel that all the turmoil hits at the same time.

I compare everyday behaviour and conduct in school to karma in the real world.
Our actions and thoughts add up to our karmic account..
That concept of good deeds and good conduct was a part of how we behaved. Good behavior in school was rewarded and bad behavior was punished.
We know from that, our deeds and actions count.

Our struggles, challenges and our turmoil periods are like tests and exams.
We were tested in school to check if we were ready for the next lesson, next term or next class.
If we flunked we had to redo not just the exams but the attendance, projects, class work and homework.
Similarly, if we haven't learnt our lessons from the bitter experience, IT REPEATS.
So if you have been through a grind, stop think and introspect. What have you learnt.
Once we do that. Its passed.
We are ready and strong enough to move to a higher level.
The next grade.
Similarly life's lessons only get more profound.
They chisel us. It brings out the best in us.
Exams were never meant to scare us away, and yes struggles were never meant for us to fear it and stagnate.
Exams and struggles both happened so that we face it and grow.
Learn our lessons well, pass and maybe even excel at it.
So if an experience keeps repeating. Life is telling you, you haven't learnt your lesson.

Our board exams are the big crisis. Like divorces, loosing a job, a relationship breaking. Its a big exam to take you to the next level of consciousness.
So face it with courage.
The real world will take you through your levels at your own pace.
So the people at low levels of consciousness remain there. They are in level 1
Or like LKG. The difficulty level remains nil forever. Yes, its the good people who struggle.
Its good news. Your higher. Your growing.
Thank your turmoil.

Lastly our trouble areas in school is that one difficult subject.
Like math or chemistry.

Isn't that where the real grind is?
The weak areas are hit.
The tutions, the revisions, the repeated effort or focus is to strengthen the weak areas.
When there is force applied and a struggle through that one area. Remember, the school of life is strengthening your weak area.
Like a weak muscle.
Most workouts for the weak area.
To build on it.
Pump more weights.

To sum it up. Our life is a replica of what we went through in school.
We think its just important to get through the exam, or the struggle that we go through- NO.
Its a bit of everything. If we just pass exams and haven't had good behaviour or conduct or karma. We can even get thrown out of school.
Or, if our behavior has been great, and we miss a main exam. Our conduct is reviewed and reevaluated. A second chance is given.
So our karma is as important as our deeds and us merely living life or passing the tests.
How we live life matters.
All our lessons and stages are taken from school to prepare us for the real world.

I thank my school and my teachers who took me through that learning and that process. It gives me the wisdom to live life as ease today.

Love and Light
Sheila Bajaj

QUESTION and ANSWERS

2010-07-12T01:25:00.001-07:00

Iv decided to add this as a new part of my Blog. Post your questions. Get wisdom. This is not a prediction section.

Dear Sheila Maam,
Iv been through a Bad marriage. I feel very scared blocked and averse to commitment or relationships. Marriage is out of the question.
Please throw some light on this.
Rana

Hi Rana,
When a person goes through a bad marriage his softest side gets bruised and beaten. when that happens, we've really allowed hurt pain and heavy emotions into our heart. Its a bruise which hasn't healed.
We stop to act and start to react. We don't come from pure love. We come from fear.
We are blocked to true love. The moment someone showers love , the reaction will be to run far away. Love can be scary.
This is because there is a fear of getting hurt again. Of loosing that love again.
That's why we run away from what we want most.
The soul needs to heal from old wounds.
When you are just out of a relationship, you tend to live in rebellion and in your complete comfort zone.
Allow yourself to heal.
After that, dig deep and look within.
Are you really scared of commitment or marriage??
Or is that What you WANT MOST??
The person you will fear is the person you know can love you. But the bruised soul loves to chase.
To inflict more pain on oneself.

So if you see this pattern , STOP.
Heal and introspect.
Then allow your heart to come from love. Not fear. To act from love, not react from the painful past.

I hope this helps.
Love and Light,
Sheila Bajaj

TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS- Soul mates and Twin souls

2010-06-20T07:11:00.001-07:00

Toxic relationships
What are toxic relationships??

There are some relationships that give us more pain than happiness. These relationships are not built on the foundation of love, acceptance and the other virtues. These toxic relationships are draining and addictive.
They are so difficult to let go. The dependency factor in these relationships are very high.
The relationship or the person acts as a parasite.
The hunger and the void never gets filled.
These relationships lack laughter, they lack joy and fulfillment.
They don't enrich the soul, they deplete it.
A relationship should never be a struggle.
A toxic relationship is struggle from day 1.
It ends with chords that are too painful to cut.
These bonds cause turmoil and don't even get the support of the gods and angels. Parental support in these relationships is minimal and closest friends will be the loudest signs and voices screaming at you to stay away from the other.

Toxic relationships are easy to recognize, they make us feeling helpless, reciprocation imbalance always exists.
Men and women get into these relationships with a person who has very less regard or love for them.
It is a mere attraction that brought both close.
The best thing to do if you realize that you are in one of these relationships is to stop right there and think.
Break cut or burn the chord.
Be in power and don't wait for your toxic partner to dump you because that is most likely to happen around the corner.
When you take a call yourself, the pain is a lot less.

A blessed relationship doesn't need as much effort.
Love is about loving without playing the games.
Love is about knowing you will be safe and protected.
As ordinary as it is a twin soul relationship will see you through your lows and highs.
Accept every ridiculous bone in you and understand you through all the changes you go through.
The bond between twin souls is so sacred and healing.
It allows us and grants us the gift of freedom. The freedom to be and to exist. Our twin soul allows us to grow, nourishes our roots and makes us grow.
Feeds our confidence and is that breath of fresh air.
He or she can make you laugh on the gloomiest days.
You can spend hours talking to them or sit in silence for hours and not say a thing.
Feel each others heartbeat while listening to an intense song.

Or just be random and talk random.
Twin souls are supportive, loving, affectionate and honest. They are living angels and continue being the best emotional anchors forever.
They make the best partners and a marriage with your twin soul can be your dream come alive.
I know 5 couples who married their twin soul.

Love????evil or divine

2010-05-17T04:58:00.001-07:00

Love is patient love is kind.
Iv heard about love from so many sources so many experiences and so many scriptures.
Is love really that beautiful.
So much hurt in the name of love.
So many hearts broken in the name of love.
Love is that one driving force which makes people go against each other. Makes kids hate their parents.
Makes man and women have the worst battle fought outside a battlefield.
So how can this love be divine if it has the power to hurt people?
How can it be sacred if it can bring out the worst in us?

I look at this beautiful emotion and search deeper.
Why is love so dual?. On one hand it can make a dead man alive and give him reason to live and on the other hand it can destroy the person or make them crazy or destructive.
Its like power. Like petrol. Like fuel.
It could be productive or destructive.
So how does love happen? How do we explain our connection to some instantly and our disconnection with some we've lived with our whole life.
Love is a force, an energy. Its a vibration that each one of us have and emit. We vibrate with this love energy and when we find this energy being one with another vibration we connect. This connection can be so fulfilling. The feeling of oneness is so blissful. Even if ur miles apart you can feel the strong wave of its subtleness hit your solar plexus and make your very existence alive and your solar plexus churn.
As beings of love when we connect with the other side of our energy or our other half we vibrate with harmony. We r in perfect balance- ying and yang. This love is divine. Very rarely do we come across the same frequency. When the frequency is right everything else will be upside down. Why?
The journey of the soul is to find our frequencies work through this path through the ups and downs and see if the love remains. To see if the love is strong enough to go through all the trials of life.
The ultimate purpose of the soul is to unite with its other half. And the journey of life can be made beautiful in that quest or painful in the loss.
Because love is a vibration from the inner dimensions of our consciousness it can oftenly give us pain. We may hold on to it inspite of the pain. The connection of love is from the root. like the roots of the tree. And then it permeates on the physical mental and emotional.
Dig deeper. Connect and never let a soul connection pass you by.

www.sheilabajaj.com

The Real Love

2010-05-08T23:44:00.001-07:00

Love is patient, love is kind, these are words about love from the bible.
The kind of love that can move you to tears when its felt. The love from god the love from our angels.
Can human beings love like that?
Our human world is a feeling world.
Love is simple but in the human world its all complicated.
There are stages.
First its the phase of feelings and attraction.
Where everything about the person we love, is so perfect. Every habit every virtue every kiss every gesture. Everything is appreciated.
This is highest phase of all.
Whatever love or affection is given is perceived as wow.
I call it the wow phase.
This wow phase is very short. Some people are capable of pulling it longer. The most love is percieved at this phase. Because everything is wow. It is percieved as real or true love. So the experience is heightened.
When the wow phase is ending, the second phase starts. The beginning of real love.
The phase when both people get emotionally close. This is also combined with the wow phase. But this phase is short and also nice. At the end of this phase the trouble starts.
The egos take over or the test of love is presented by the universe.
The fights or disagreements have begun by now.
Both argue fight and disagree. The passion is getting lost. Feelings go out the window and the pain begins.
Both people disagree or fight about stuff.
This creates a divide or the couple may be able to live with the differences.
This is the test of true love.
Love is not about the feelings. Its not about the first few months. Love is about when the fights start. Can both people accept each other as is??
Can both understand each other???
Can there be complete freedom of expression and who we are???
Can there be compatibility???
Can the love hold all of the crap. Can one still hold on to the love and accept.
To me, acceptance is pure love.
Can we allow the othr to be who they are in their most self expressed form.
Can we grant people to be who they are??
Can we love them for the ups and the downs and have the courage to say it??

Love is acceptance.it is accepting the good bad and ugly. When this fight phase starts the fights and resentment starts. The same wow person becomes the person who gives the most pain. This is the test of love. If a couple passes this phase they usually accept anything that comes by. Their bond gets strong. Usually people who r in a relationship based on feelings end here.
Its a test for endurance and strength.

Sheila Bajaj

Numbness

2010-05-08T23:31:00.001-07:00

Sometimes life is so chaotic and yet so silent. This is not a good silence I'm talking about. I'm taking about numbness.
Sometimes we go thrrough so much pain we turn numb.
Pain can be so continous, u feel it again and again and again more and more and it doesn't stop. And at one point we reach the end of pain. We are empty. And numb.
Numb should be good. Since its the end of the pain path. but numbness can't be good, its the beginning of a no feeling state of being.
All our life we feel and feel and feel. And then we hurt and hurt. And at the end of the hurt path we reach numbness. We seize to feel. We start living on auto pilot. My favorite word. Its so easy to snap into autopilot. The mind and heart and body doesn't wanna feel pain. So it goes numb and dead. And we just function and live life everyday.like machines. We exist. But we have no life. What a pathetic place to be in.
Does being numb prevent us from getting hurt. Is that numbness good? The phase where we seize to feel. Feel anything. Feel love feel joy feel alive.
Numbness can't be good. We all turn numb, but being numb or hard doesn't make us happy. We stop living in the experience if live. We forget what happiness and feeling is. We stop experiencing love. We don't connect to god we don't connect to ourselves and we dry up. It feels like the soul is dead.
What makes the soul so alive. What makes us happy and drives us crazy.
Its love.
Love has the potwer to transform something dead and give it life. Give it feeling once again. Make it breathe. Give it a purpose. Give it hope. Give it a meaning.
How many of us gave up. And dried up. And then came love, pure love. And it changed our soul and our reality.
Transformed the consciousness of that being. Connected us back to the source. To the consciousness. Could this love be an awakened state of existence.
I look at this love as being divine. Its only divine energy that can transform something dead into life.
Love has that power.
Then what makes that same love convert the joy into pain. Does love have the power to create pain too??
Yes it does. Love is always attached to an expectation. A fear. When love is attached to fear it creates an expectation.
This creates pain.
Pain is born from fear.
Fear is consuming and frightening. The fear of loosing love. And that creates another swirl of pain and then we walk the path of agony and wounds. The pain that stems from pure love and then fear is the worst of the kind. Its worse than the pain of not having at all.
but fear needs to be removed. There is no right answer of how fear of loosing can be removed. Fear is like poison. It consumes us and kills the happiness love gives us. Fear is like a deadly virus. Once fear is transformed into faith. We can feel love again. And even if there is pain or shades of hurt, it feeds the soul. It makes us wanna live the journey, not fear the outcome.

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LIVING IN THE NOW

2009-08-03T08:02:00.000-07:00

It is either the past of the future. Never now. We live in our past carrying it. So heavy, worry, fear, anticipate the future never just be the present. That the hardest. We either regret the past or miss it. Why? Because we never lived it fully. Every present is never lived fully. That’s why we don’t enjoy moments.

In every present we sulk. Just sulk. The absence of something or loosing what you have. We want to possess it. Possess the present. But we cant. And that’s the fun. Don’t possess it. I am glad we cant. We would die if we tried to possess the present. It would lead to so much monotony.

We are never able to live in the moment also because we are always searching searching. Searching blindly don’t know for what, why, no just searching directionless aimless.

There is nothing out there that we can find search inside. You will find the universe. But we cant accept that. We search everywhere BUT inside. The search takes us further and further away from the answer. Because the answer is within. Its like a mad person being really hungry, he just wants food. Doesn’t know what and why. Just food. No matter how much he eats he’s not going to be full. Because his physical thirst and hunger can be satisfied not the emotional, spiritual and mental hunger. We all have depths, but try to feed only the superficial. Like the physical. Not the root. Feed the root. The root of hunger and the hunger will not drive you crazy. Feed your purpose of being in existence. Don’t just run. Run with a quest and a plan. Run with a meaning and an intention.

BREAK THE MONOTONY OF YOUR LIFE... BREAKING PATTERNS

2009-03-17T00:25:00.000-07:00

Every energy in this Universe is linked with us. We are linked with spaces and form and every other aspect of existence. If there is a shift in any energy pattern in the universe or cosmos, It automatically influences our life. It’s a beautiful invisible network.
This invisible network can be understood and worked on to change unwanted patterns in our life.
Lets look at a negative thought. It starts somewhere. With an action, a thought or a feeling from somewhere. Can we root the feeling of a negative thought from anywhere else. Someone emitting that vibration? Someone at work. Where did that vibration come from a feeling of dis ease. Where did that root from ? The mind. So You received the negative thought and feel miserable about a negative thought, You may have received it even as a comment or remark. You get upset, angry sometimes. Fight or argue to release the feeling. It creates a feeling of dis ease in another. Creates a negative frequency in the air. Then you feel calmer. But the new pattern of this negative has triggered of a series of frequencies being emitted in our surrounding. It sometimes ends up as a block. In relationships, in your body in your work and looking at the worst. Affect it in the long run. Well the good part is. This feeling can be reversed, with positive affirmations and love. Feeling of well being. Being happy. It can be made contagious too.
We can use this rippling effect of energy to unblock things like stagnancy at work, sour relationships or even fights.

Thought Magnets

2009-03-14T11:59:00.000-07:00

Have we ever thought why our deepest fears come true.
Have we ever thought why our most passionate desires also come true.
Some dreams come true just cause we wanted it and thought about it.
This manifestation happens because of the principle of thought magnets.
Every time we are happy we only feel happier and get really good news after that. Once you feel lousy continuous lousy things happen around us.

Every thought we feel and experience is sent out into the universe through our breath. Our breath is the connection between the consciousness and us. It connects the inner self to the higher consciousness. Its like a connector.
We keep worrying, we send out worry magnets into the universe and all we get back is more worry and more pain.
The happier we feel the most positivity we attract.
This thought magnet attracts itself to another magnet of similar nature.

If you want to feel great things happen, send out positive vibes. The least you can do is take your attention away from yourself and focus on someone else.
When you create something for another, it untangles a huge knot in your own life.

try it out.
Give love if you seek love,
Give abundance and stability if you seek it for yourself.
Its using the law of karma to create miracles in the universe.

MANIFEST MIRACLES

2009-03-11T02:21:00.000-07:00

How do miracles happen. Is it the power of the universe or is it the power of one's intention.
I have always wondered. Sometimes we all don't intend for something but it still happens and sometimes we want something so bad and it just wont happen.

How to make Miracles happen
1.The first funda of a miracle is when you desire something, ask for it and believe that if its in your highest good it will come to you.
2. Make a miracle happen for someone else and a miracle is more likely to happen for you.
3. Live in a world of love, abundance and joy.
4. Keep away worry and jealousy. You have to give away unconditionally and not be threatened for survival. Only when you live a life of complete trust in the universe, will the universe make miracles happen for you.
5. Feed your soul. Whatever it takes. Chocolates, shopping, good food or a pedicure. The mind and soul need to be in a state of utmost joy.
6. Love yourself. Believe that you are the most special person in your life. If you value yourself. You will see the best come to you.
7. Trust in that higher force. Call it angels or the universal energy or god.
Its all one.
8. Write out all the desires exactly the way you desire it.
9. Visualize the desire.

More on Miracles coming up....
Hope you can start with these...

Angels

2009-02-11T23:55:00.000-08:00

Every one of us have questioned this word, does it exist could it be a part of fantasy or do angels and spirit guides really exist.
The answer to these questions vary depending on experience of an individual.
I can only speak from my own experience.
Every now and then we ask for help or guidance, we pray we cry out for help and suddenly you see an impossible prayer answered. How does that happen. It has to be something beyond our minds manifesting it.
There is an angelic force which governs the universe. Saves people from a million accidents each day.( few errors can be overlooked).
I know of instances when angels have helped solve big huge problems, like selling a business before the recession hit. Thank god for those miracles.
There are times when angels don't show their presence or answer prayers immediately. They let us go through a certain experience and decide for ourselves.
It could be a learning that god wants us to go through.
But what we can do is ask for help, for love and blessings. and not to forget direction.
The only reason we don't feel the presence of angels around us is cause we're constantly asking for a physical sign.
We limit our experience to the physical world.
Go beyond the body.
Try opening up to other softer signs of the angels.
You may be amazed at the signs and answers you receive.

Recently I channeled messages from Archangel Michael on a psychic board, The guidance each one of us received was amazing.
Every question had to be thought about very carefully.
The messages from Archangel Michael was so comforting and loving. Each one of us got career guidance and solutions to a relationship problem.
From these short experiences of psychic readings and channeling and angel meditations I realized that angels need a medium for communication. So ask for the guidance and the medium will be chosen and revealed to you.
Just be open to receive this message.
More on angel guidance coming soon on my blog.

TAROT READINGS FOR 2009

2009-01-20T08:11:00.000-08:00

ARIES

Confusion is on the cards. Time to enjoy the simpler but more meaningful things in life. Success is coming your way. A good time to get into new ventures. People interested in property, a perfect time to invest. Financially 2009 will be very rewarding. People at the work place will try taking credit for the work you have put in. Some of you will decide to relocate or change careers. Business with family will not work out. After april you may need to get your act together and start something you have always wanted to do. Action in 2009 is very important.
Relationship: You are finding it difficult to break free from rules and expectations society and to a large extent you yourself have created for your life. All the elements of the universe are with you, but what's lacking is your will to want it. Listen to messages that your angel is giving you. Marriage is on the cards for those who have been seeking for a partner.
Health: Watch out for head aches and throat problems .There is a need for balance and expression.

TAURUS

Career: In the year 2009 Taurians will slow down with the number of tasks at hand. You will get more focused with the career. You will be networking with people. But, beware of deception someone's playing politics with you. Don't let that stop you from achieving what you want, since a positive outcome is coming your way. March, april and may are good months for career growth. People in business will get into a new venture at the end of the year. Travel will take a toll on you in the year ahead. A good year to try new ideas to make business grow. People in the food industry will see growth. An old investment will prove lucky, almost like a miracle.
Relationship: Things seem a bit stagnant. There's a need to reach out for this relationship in a slightly different way .Things need to be worked out. Expression of love is very essential at this point. There may be minor clashes with the partner. Ort things out before they get out of hand.
Health: You've just gone through a bad time. Let go of all of that energy that's bottled up right now. Expression is the key word. Watch out for your throat in particular. A balanced diet can help prevent lots of health problems.

GEMINI

Career: The year ahead for Gemini’s will be a turning point in their life. The period after march will bring clarity and growth. There's a breakthrough. Success which was due to you has finally come through, but remember to share what you enjoy with people around you, but something from the past seems to hold you back , let go of it. A new contract or job is on the cards. You will be earning a lot more than what you ever have. Fame and recognition will follow. A good time to sell shares and other investments. You will invest in property in 2009. You will be able to save quite a bit. Travel for work and pleasure are indicated in the year ahead.

Relationship: A new relationship will move into a serious commitment. Marriage is definitely on cards for those of you been ready for it. Be cautious of compromises but overall put aside all your fears. The relationship will be very fulfilling Relationships with family may take a toll on you. Try talking out differences with family members.

Health: A lot of clutter in your mind. You seem exhausted and there is a need for balance. People having back problems may find it getting better. Stress in general will get worse. Pay attention to the stomach.

CANCER

Career- Invest time and energy in other directions. You maybe wasting your creative energies in the wrong place. You will see a complete turn around on the career front once you make certain decisions. A very positive phase in your work life as an important or long pending project is nearing an end. Follow your instincts and grab the offer that comes your way. People in business will see growth in the months of june july and august. Those of you struggling for a break will finally get it in march.

Relationship- . Pay more attention to what you are giving in your relationship rather than receiving from your partner and you will find your relationship become more loving and mature. With other relatives, be diplomatic and play along when someone asks you to be a part of some group activity.

Health- There is a need for balance of chakras and meditation to resolve complicated health issues. Stomach problems will surface in the year ahead.

LEO

Career: Things seem a bit stalled right now. You seem emotionally bottled up, let go and process through all of your emotions. . Important things will postpone. Someone at the work place will feel intimidated by your performance. Emotionally you will find yourself going through a roller coaster ride. You will have a difference of opinion with your colleagues. A good time for property deals. Partnerships will be successful. Don't be too quick to judge others. A good time to move forward with new ideas. Diplomacy at work could get you that promotion you’ve been waiting for. Investors will be happy about the decisions they make in 2009. Short term investments will be profitable and less risky. A new offer is on the cards. Too many investments could be dangerous. Advice from a Gemini will be essential before you take any call.
Relationship: There's a cause for celebration. Enjoy the journey but don't forget your identity in the process. A very close friend will touch base with you. You may need to lend an ear to this friend. You could be cornered, so be prepared to tell the truth. Issues with a sibling must be sorted out. Pay attention to your partners needs. Express your love or the relationship could get stagnant. Clear clutter in the house and particularly in the bedroom. Energize the south west corner with red and a source of light.
Health: Watch out for head aches and your back.

VIRGO

Career- Something very important will get postponed in the year ahead. A financial crunch will cause stress. Be assertive in business deals. A new proposal will come your way. Be diplomatic in negotiations. It is important this year to be strong and determined, to check for yourself who are you and what is your goal in life, focus and commit on a path, direction and your truth. Most of you will experience changes in the work you do. New projects or a change of job is likely. Some will experience depression and a feeling of being defeated

Relationship- The absence of a certain person will cause you to be extremely emotional and angry at times. Your relationships will be bound by a lot of rules and regulations this week. Silence your mind and be in the situation for as long as it goes away. Sometimes, the more you resist a situation, the more it persists! It seems like you’ve lost all emotions as far as career goes. Its more mechanical. Problems you perceive on the work front this year are only self-made. Calm your mind, and listen to what your heart tells you, and you’ll have a new perspective to things within 3 months. A dream for a family member will come true , this will have something to do with a marriage.. You feel older than you actually are, time to get back on track.

Health- Watch out for neck trouble and headaches.

LIBRA

Career- A good year to sign new contracts. Be impulsive and adventurous. A solution to a problem will suddenly appear. This will in some way be a miracle for some Libran’s. A new offer is on the cards, but you seem to be trying to find reasons to not take up. Do not limit yourself as this will bring you all the fulfillment you are seeking. Your lack of courage and self-confidence will make you sit on the wall all through the first three months of 2009. The start of next month will see a big change in your life. A communication with someone in your life is incomplete. You seem to have been way to busy with your career. Time to say what’s unsaid! You will find an opportunity to travel. Don’t let the past hold you back. Bad time to invest. Please communicate with friends/family before you make any investment decisions.

Relationship- . Emotionally a very good time for you as old wounds are healing and the new is coming in. You will feel fear and apprehension in relationships. Some of you will meet an interesting person. . Something from the past will re visit you, which will make family relationships a bit dicey. Children will settle down if unsettled.

Health- You need lots of sleep and rest. You may be overworking. Meditation can help overcome stress.

SCORPIO

Career- . Things around you will move at a very fast pace but you will slow the momentum. You’ve been trying to pursue something and it just doesn’t seem to come to you! Don’t just sit there brooding and feeling all burdened! Instead, try harder, put in more than a 100% and you will see results. Investors can invest in a new venture related to export and import. People in the creative field need to work harder than normal.

Relationship- . Relationships will cause you fulfillment. Be cautious of becoming possessive of people around you. Some of you may be feeling jealous and envy. change your behaviour or there will be a very high price to pay. Acceptance and understanding with the partner will save the relation ship. Some of you may be feeling that you are giving too much. A huge conflict of thoughts will consume you in 2009. those of you who have been searching for their soulmate will find the right person after a lot of struggle. There may be a celebration in the family.

Health- Your health may be bogging you down. Some are dealing with lack of self expression and some are simply ignoring their health. Emotional turmoil will spoil health overall. Express your emotions from time to time. Find a friend to talk to.

SAGGITARIUS

Career- . Old projects or unfinished work will get completed in the year ahead. People around you will be talking behind your back and possible being manipulative. Be cautious that not one misuses your vulnerable nature . Most saggitarians will find themselves in a legal or personal battle. It needs team work, so participate. Don’t resist anything and go with the flow. Its ok if you are finding yourself lost right now, just go on and you’ll see success coming to you soon enough. This year is a one of sharing. Make it a point to donate something to someone in need. It will help you. There’s a choice beyond reality that you are making. Those of you who are thinking if it’s the right time to make that choice and get on with it. A transformation is on its way. A miracle is on its way.

Relationship- Some of you may lack courage, have a lot of anxiety or a phobia. Some of you may feel very disoriented and insecure. A past relationship will not allow you to move on. It may seem like you are compromising a little too much. This compromise will weigh you down. Stand up for yourself and be brave. A new relationship is on the cards.

Health- You need to go on a detox diet. Start exercising. Mentally you have too much weighing you down. Counseling or healing is highly recommended.

CAPRICORN

Career- You may find yourself in the midst of chaos with all your finances. Some of you will regret certain investments and decisions. New ventures will come your way. Arrange the finances for a new business. This could be in partnership. Old projects will get stuck at some point. You may have an argument at the work place or home. Stay away form group activity. Clash of ideas at the work place will cause disharmony. A person of authority at work will postpone something which is of utmost importance to you this week. Do not procrastinate. There will be a choice they would need to make between sticking to their present work or changing jobs. Go for the best and never compromise in order to be safe and secure. Risks in 2009 will prove beneficial.

Relationship- You may feel depressed and waiting for each day to pass by. By suppressing anger and pain the problem will not resolve.You are being way too idealistic. Don’t have unreasonable expectations, only to feel disappointed at the end. There’s a need for balance. Also, remember to share what you enjoy with people you love. You may find yourself regretting loosing a special person due to lack of expression or passion.

Health- Skin allergies and throat troubles may occur.

AQUARIUS

Career- You may be very dominating in the year ahead. You might lose your temper and get upset over trivial matters. You’ll criticize and find fault with almost everything around you. You’ve been postponing some form of communication with someone at work. Time to focus on unfinished business. Communicate very strategically with this person. The amount of stress at work due to multi-tasking, will make you loose track of what you are truly capable of. Gather the courage to take up what you really want to do, even if it means going against rules you have laid down for yourself. The year ahead will be a one that gives you the opportunity to make a mark in your career. You will sign new contracts and the jump will be one better than the previous one. Stay grounded and don’t allow your success to ruin your relationships.

Relationship- you will find yourself going from a zone of uncertainty to certainty. A new relationship will bring fulfillment. Adventure is on the cards. Work on understanding and giving rather than receiving. Be a little patient for about a month and you find a lot of change coming your way. A new relationship is on the cards. A relationship which will give you all the balance and fulfillment you are looking for. Comparing yourself like you are doing now will only make you loose focus of what you are truly capable of. A choice will lie ahead. Go ahead and commit. A new beginning is on the cards.

Health- Take care of the stomach. Stay away from unhealthy food.

PISCES

Career- A productive year at the workplace and in the career. Any new ideas must be implemented without delay. Avoid arguments with colleagues. In the next few months you will find a lot of ideas and proposals being offered to you. . Invest your money wisely. New opportunities will be profitable. You will find yourself enjoying the finer things that life has to offer. Some will plan a travel to a cold place. A good time for people studying and in the creative field. . Take up projects in addition to a job. People in business need to expand. People in the creative field will get recognition. A new learning will take you places. A good year to invest in property.

Relationship- Spend some time alone. A current relationship stress requires you to give your partner some space. Avoid compromising too much. Ignoring yourself could deepen the void you are experiencing. The year ahead will be exellent for relationships. Those of you planning a wedding. Now is the time to propose. Those of you searching for your soulmate, your search ends in 2009.

Health- Go to a spa or focus on destressing on the physical level. Joining a yoga class will be beneficial.

2008-09-25T12:10:00.000-07:00

TAROT GUIDANCE BY SHEELA BAJAJ

2008-08-10T06:04:00.000-07:00

THE WEEK OF ACTION

ARIES

The week ahead urges all arians to make decisions and be in action. New ventures need to begin, with or without anyone’s support. Start putting in action into whatever you have been postponing in the past few months or weeks. Success and recognition will be the motivator ultimately. A good time to invest in property.

Advice- Wear red as much as you can and wear a purified iron tiger eye stone.

TAURUS

Motivations will be low in the week ahead. Push yourself to be adventurous. Some of you will make considerable progress towards mid week. Finances will deplete. Relationships will take a toll on you. You will need to take a stand on whatever you believe in. Travel is on the cards. Advice- Keep a Jupiter yantra with you at all times. Keep an energized tourmaline rock at the entrance of the house.

GEMINI

The energies of the wheel of fortune urges all gemini’s to be prepared for a roller coaster ride. Things will work in your favor and your career will take you on an all time high. Spend time with friends and family. A close friend will emotionally connect with you.
Be receptive to emotional fulfillment. A new relationship is on the cards.

Advice- An idol of a phoenix( cleansed idol) must be kept in the south corner or your house.

CANCER

Cancerians are going to be on cloud nine in the week ahead. Support will come from all sides. You will feel yourself receiving attention from everyone in the week ahead. Those of you planning a baby will get some good news. Money may get stuck in business. Travel is on the cards, but this time it will be for pleasure.

Advice- Spend quality time with family. Be expressive.

LEO

Postponement is on the cards with new projects. Some of you will feel exhaustion trying to prove yourself at the workplace. People around you will feel jealous and envious. Stay focused on plans made in the past. An argument or difference of opinion may arise in a relationship. Advice- Don’t postpone decisions. Make an effort to break ice if a cold war persists.

VIRGO

You will be the cause of someone being depressed in the week ahead. Some of you will hurt someone around you with lack of reciprocation. Be sensitive to emotions and do something special for a loved one. Start planning a strategy for the future. You may have small financial troubles. Advice- Plan ahead of time. Keep abundance attractor crystals in your cash box.

LIBRA

You will find yourself being pulled in two different directions in the week ahead. Your responsibilities will burden you to a large extent. Friends will support you emotionally. A new job offer will come your way. No concrete change or transition on the cards. Don’t take important decisions. Advice- Keep a picture of a phoenix rising from ashes in the south corner of your office for career luck and recognition.

SCORPIO

The week ahead you will see people around you behave strangely. Lots of unexpected events will confuse and surprise you. This period can give rise to misunderstandings and fights. There will be clashes of ideas at the work place are likely. People in management positions will be stressed out completely. Advice- Don’t allow any important events to happen in the week ahead. Stay away from forming permanent opinions.

SAGGITARIUS

A new relationship is on the cards for people who have been searching for their soul mate. You will find yourself getting very attracted to someone and this could turn into a serious committed relationship. At the work front you will face a challenge or evaluation.

Advice- Be alert and stay on top of things during this period. One mistake could cost you heavily.

CAPRICORN

You will find several answers to your questions in the week ahead. The path of your life gets clearer and more defined. Dreams are showing you signs of fulfillment. A new direction career wise and a new relationship is on the cards. Long term commitment maybe essential for all Capricorns at this time.

Advice- Stay optimistic and be open to a new relationship. Be expressive with your feelings.

AQUARIUS

A new path has been paved out for Aquarians. A rebirthing process is what you have gone through and now you are either feeling anxious or impatient. Peace will emerge at the end of this period. Some of you will feel an emotional void.

Advice- focus on the career. Those of you in jobs must channel extra energy in a new venture. Business can prove to be lucky. Wear a Jupiter yantra for career luck.

PISCES

An emotional breakthrough is on the cards for all Pisceans. You will find yourself breaking free from dependency or being tied down. People around you will support your intentions. Focus on you health. Emotional and mental health need balance. You may be battling with too many choices in front of you.

Advice- Don’t cheat yourself. Live in line with your truth and who you are. Follow your heart and your dreams.

TAROT GUIDANCE By Sheela Bajaj 23rd-29th June 2008

2008-06-24T06:44:00.000-07:00

ARIES

Career- A productive week at the workplace. Any new ideas must be implemented without delay. Avoid arguments with colleagues.

Relationship- Spend some time alone. A current relationship stress requires you to give your partner some space.

Feng Shui Tip- Keep a bamboo plant in your bedroom to bring in fresh chi energy into your relationship.

TAURUS

Career-A new opportunity will soon appear from nowhere. Some of you will face challenges at work which will finally make you emerge a much stronger person. Trust new offers and ventures.

Relationship- you will find yourself getting into a zone of uncertainty from certainty. Adventure is on the cards.

Feng Shui tip- Keep a picture of a phoenix in the south corner of your office to enhance new opportunities.

GEMINI

Career- Right now you need to build courage to enter a whole new phase in your career. New avenues will open up and There will be plenty of choices to make.

Relationship- You will break free from something shackling you. There is a sense of freedom you will experience. Some will experience anger in a certain relationship.

Feng Shui tip- Clear up the south sector of your office.

CANCER

Career- Old projects will move towards completion. Some of you will battle with legal issues or conflicts where you will need intervention of a third person.

Relationship- You could meet your soul mate in the week ahead if you are single.

Feng Shui tip- Clean your bedroom with sea salt. Tear old letters from past relationships. Keep a picture of mandarin ducks in the south west of the bedroom.

LEO

Career- You will have several choices put before you in the week ahead. You may be disappointed with the reward to the effort or work put in. Avoid quitting your job in haste.

Relationship- you will experience emotional turmoil in the week ahead. Some will feel the emotional void get bigger.

Feng Shui Tip- Keep a lucky bamboo plant in your office for fresh chi energy and a picture of a running horse in the north.

VIRGO

Career - You will find yourself lacking courage to express yourself at the workplace. Some of will feel lousy about not being able to do what you want.

Relationship-relationships will take a toll on you in the week ahead. Venting negative emotions will help release the stress. Some of you will find yourself being tied down with an old commitment.

Feng Shui tip- clear clutter at home and in the office. Light frankincense incense in the bedroom and office.

LIBRA

Career- The week ahead will make you go crazy with confusion, guilt and too many things to deal with. It is a passing phase. You will have financial trouble and find it hard to fulfill commitments.

Relationship- Transformation of a certain relationship is coming your way. A good time to go on a holiday with family.

Feng Shui tip- add an element of red in the south west of your living room.

SCORPIO

Career- You will find yourself feeling stressed out at the workplace, this stress will be very good for that jump you will experience. A promotion or a new job. Those in business can expand now.

Relationship- Stay away from compromise. You may loose a part of yourself in the process.

Feng Shui Tip- Keep Chinese coins in your wallet for increasing wealth.

SAGGITARIUS

Career- you will receive money or some recognition at work in the week ahead. Some of you may have an argument with a colleague. Handle the situation with diplomacy.

Relationship- You will find yourself getting attracted to someone around you. Those in relationships will find stability.

Feng Shui tip- clear any clutter from the south west corner of your house. Keep the corner well lit.

CAPRICORN

Career – A good time to take risks . new ventures will bring success. Those of you in the creative field will experience growth. Time to let go of the old. Take up new projects/assignments.

Relationships- let go of past pain and move on. Some of you will see transition in a relationship.

Feng Shui tip- you need to do some structural changes at the office. Get it painted.

AQUARIUS

Career- The week ahead will be very distracting and you will see lots of things coming in the way of your plans. Be cautious of colleagues. Do not loan money to anyone. A bad time to make new investments.

Relationship- There is more to a relationship than what you see or experience. Some of you will go through emotional stress. Talk to a friend. Vent.

Feng Shui tip- grounding is very important. Do pottery or gardening. Wear a hematite in your ankles.

PISCES

Career- A change in energies are probing you to move ahead. You lack courage and motivation. A parent will give you valuable advice. You may feel lousy at the workplace.

Relationship- Stress comes from all sides. A lack of courage doesn’t allow you to accept love and emotions. A rebirth is on the cards.

Feng Shui tip- Discard old love letters. Clean the bedroom with salt. Have a sea salt bath for 21 days.

TAROT by SHEELA BAJAJ 16th -22nd June

2008-06-15T08:28:00.000-07:00

ARIES

The week ahead you will face lots of challenges and go through lots of learning lessons. There will also be a new direction that your experiences will walk you through. A time when new proposals and offers will come your way. Some of will be battling with confusion and too many choices. A relationship will cause you some stress.

Advice- You may need to get serious with work and the task on hand. Action is required in the week ahead. Smile, it doesn’t hurt.

TAURUS

Stress and multitasking are the key aspects for the week ahead. The week ahead will be very rewarding and fulfilling. Those of you planning on investing money in property or a business must go ahead. A good time to save. Emotionally you may go through a series of ups and downs. Some taurians will experience an answer to a question or a solution to a problem.

Advice- there may be lots of new directions, suggestions and proposals coming your way. Accept change.

GEMINI

You may be celebrating a new relationship or emotional fulfillment. June, July and August may be fulfilling and possibly a turning point. Steadfast movement on the career front. Things will move in the right direction. Stay connected and listen to the inner voice. . You’ll find yourself on crossroads with two choices. Choose whatever seems right at that point.

Advice- Be modest and don’t take advice from anyone this week. Spend lots of time praying. Start taking action. Don't postpone.

CANCER

You may be going through a turning point in your life. You may feel very fulfilled in every area of your life. Old dreams will be fulfilled and some fantasies too. You may receive lots of money and some of you will feel emotionally content. Emotional fulfillment at its highest. Those of you searching for a partner may meet someone with a zest of youth.

Advice- Be impulsive. Dive into new ventures. Don’t ignore new opportunities. Help a loved one. Catch up with lost sleep.

LEO

A good time for property deals. Partnerships will be successful. Don't be too quick to judge others. A good time to move forward with new ideas. Diplomacy at work could get you that promotion you’ve been waiting for. Leo’s getting into new relationships must stay away from anyone already involved or rebound relationships.

Advice- A good week to focus on growth and transition.

VIRGO

A very close friend will touch base with you. You may need to lend an ear to this friend. You could be cornered, so be prepared to tell the truth. Try not to discuss important matters with colleagues. Someone at the work place will play politics and plan something behind your back. You could expect money coming you way.

Advice- Avoid arguments at work and office politics.

LIBRA

Take the time to think about and check your desires and plans. Try to see both sides of the coin before making up your mind and moving forward. Successful days for travel, international business or studies abroad. You are more optimistic and things are starting to flow favorably.

Advice- It is important to work on optimistic consciousness and not be overly critical. Be open to change in the love life. Keeping a Jupiter and sturn yantra will bring immediate success.

SCORPIO

Focus is the key aspect of the week ahead. You may be depleting all your energy in 5 different tasks, you will experience exhaustion and depletion to the highest level. Finance is the most important, the need of the hour is action. Planning and execution will play an important role.

Advice- Some will need to take time off and experience aloneness. A good time to go on a spiritual journey or learn a healing technique.

SAGGITARIUS

The week ahead will have you running from pillar to post. At the end of all the stress and multitasking you will realize that you didn’t achieve anything. There will be a new venture right in front of you. You will have lots of compromises attached to this proposal. The compromise will be worth its while even if it takes a toll on you.

Advice- Ask the advice of a Leo woman. You may need to trust your inner voice on most issues in the week ahead.

CAPRICORN

Money and finances will be a cause of concern for most Capricorns. A good time to invest and plan for the future. Some will break free from a commitment. A feeling of being liberated. New experiences will overwhelm you and some wrong choices will be made. Emotionally you will feel dependant and insecure about someone.

Advice- Enjoy the freedom from the bond. You will experience confusion. Don’t resist it.

AQUARIUS

A good time to invest your money in new ventures or the stock market. A transition in the career or job is definitely coming your way. Some of you will be ending an old relationship. You will find yourself getting very drawn to someone you may have recently interacted with. Advice- Take risks in business. Partnerships will work out very well. Be cautious of attracting legal problems.

PISCES

A new business will bring emotional fulfillment and independence. Take a stand on a decision you may have made in the past. The week ahead will be challenging and you will experience steadfast movement in every area of your life. Stop compromising to be accepted by people around.

Advice- Be aggressive and manipulative if you have to. Take a stand and believe that the universe is protecting and supporting you in all that you do.

TAROT by Sheela Bajaj 9TH JUNE- 15TH JUNE

2008-06-05T03:59:00.000-07:00

ARIES
Career- Growth and gain are lined up in the week ahead. You will either travel or plan travel. Important or unfinished projects will complete.
Relationships- You will find yourself feeling burdened and stuck in a compromise. Someone will be throwing their opinion on you. Responsibilities will bog you down.
Health- Your mind will go through a lot of stress. Emotionally you may experience a low phase.
Feng Shui Tip- Clear clutter in the office, old files and books must be cleaned out. Remove plants from the north of office.

TAURUS
Career- New ventures and risks are the highlights for the week ahead. Some will see true strength and potential where they least expected it.
Relationship- You will experience a difference of opinion with colleagues and family members. A loved one will comfort you. You may get hassled thinking about the future.
Health- General stress needs to be dealt with by meditating. You will find answers and get balance
Feng Shui tip- Keep a picture of a phoenix in the south corner of your office

GEMINI
Career- You will break free from rules and norms. Some will experience financial gain/growth. The week ahead will be rewarding and new opportunities will surface.
Relationship- Possibilities will arise where you least expect it. A relationship gone sour will restore magically.
Health- let go of suppression. Physical exercise is important.
Feng shui tip- clear the space under your bed. Keep some red in the south west of bedroom to enhance the love life.

CANCER
Career- You will see new opportunities and ideas surface. You will feel fear and apprehension before accepting or taking any action.
Relationships- A difference of opinion will create a rift with the partner. This rift will then transform to a stronger bond.
Health- A health problem will soon get sorted out.
Feng Shui tip- Have a bath with sea salt or cleansing salt. Keep a picture of double happiness symbol in the south west of your bedroom.

LEO
Career- The past will influence your career in the week ahead. Past failures will stop you from moving forward. Jealousy and envy at the workplace will cause blockages and stagnancy.
Relationships-A good time to propose or spend time with your partner.
Health- Stress from the career may result in minor health issues. Destress Meditate.
Feng Shui tip- Re arrange the furniture in the living room. Your office needs some clearing up of clutter and a new coat of paint.

VIRGO
Career- there will be a struggle at the workplace. Be it conflicts or a lack of growth in general. Some of you may be putting in your best but seeing little or no outcome.
Relationship- Take a risk. The unknown will bring adventure and happiness. To gain you will have to jump.
Health- Yoga or aerobics is essential. Loosen up your body. Go dancing.
Feng Shui Tip- The north corner of your office needs blue or purple. Keep a picture of flowing water there. Avoid a picture of a waterfall.

LIBRA
Career- You will need to spend time doing loads of PR in the week ahead. You are not using your full potential. Some of you are in the wrong job.
Relationship-Don’t isolate yourself from your partner. If you’ve had a fight. Be the first one to make up
Health- Mental stress is getting the better of you. Indecisiveness is the root cause. Decide now.
Feng Shui Tip- Keep a picture of a running horse in the south sector of your office. A picture of two phoenixes will bring new opportunities.

SCORPIO
Career- Stress and multitasking are the key aspects for the week ahead. The week ahead will be very rewarding and fulfilling. Those of you planning on investing money in property or a business must go ahead. A good time to save.
Relationship- Stagnancy and boredom will surface.
Health- Lack of focus and stress at the workplace will cause havoc.
Feng Shui Tip- have a bath with sea or cleansing salt for 21 days. Keep an amethyst rock under the pillow.

SAGGITARIUS
Career- Change and growth. In the week ahead you will be inspired by new ideas and projects. Some of you will start acting on these ideas for the change that is ahead.
Relationships- You may be feeling an emotional void and searching for some emotional fulfillment. Some of you will get into a new relationship. People around you may appear insensitive and ruthless.
Health- eat right. Your diet needs to change.
Feng Shui tip- Fresh flowers must be avoided in the bedroom. Keep a candle burnt in the south west corner of bedroom.

CAPRICORN
Career- the week ahead you will be reminded of your responsibilities and commitments. A good week for women. You’ll find tremendous progress in career and may also get recognition. You’ll find yourself in the midst of victory and triumph.
Relationship- The void from within is getting bigger.
Health- Emotionally you will feel low. Loneliness will cause stress.
Feng Shui Tip- Keep red in the south west sector of your living room. The social life will get better.

AQUARIUS
Career- You’ll be battling with two choices and hanging in between two worlds. Confusion will be the central theme of the week ahead.
Relationships- In trouble, the advice of a parent or spiritual person must be taken. You’ll find yourself moving really fast with a lot of intensity. Emotional fulfillment is on the way for most of you.
Health- Stay calm.
Feng Shui Tip- Cover any open shelves in the bedroom.

PISCES
Career- There will be a complete turn around in the events of life. You may also witness a miracle.
Relationship- Don’t push away anyone that might show keen interest. Love is not always about chemistry. It’s about acceptance and understanding.
Health- Visit a homeopath, holistic healer or meditate. Spiritual health needs attention.
Feng Shui Tip-Keep a picture of an unending knot in the SW corner of your bedroom

More Feng Shui

2008-06-01T00:37:00.000-07:00

So Now you've cleared the clutter in your house. Now you want to see some real stuff happen in your life. Lets start with one corner at a time.

NORTH

The North represents career luck.

The north must have some element of water. An aquarium, water feature, symbol or a picture of water. Using Blue or purple in that corner could help enhance the energy. Metallic colours or objects also work well.

What to avoid- Having plants in the north will deplete the chi of that corner.

SOUTH

The south represents recognition luck.

This corner represents the luck that brings recognition, name, fame and growth. This corner is one of the most important corners to work with in my experience.

A picture of a running horse, victory horse or a tribute horse could transform stagnancy to growth and finally get recognition at the workplace.

A picture of a phoenix in the south is also excellent to keep. A pair of phoenix will attract new oppurtunities in your career.

Pictures of birds are very good for the south in general.

Avoid- using bright lights and be careful when choosing the picture of a phoenix and horse. Sometimes a wrong picture could cause havoc.
Let's start with these two corners. More later.
Love and Light
Sheela Bajaj

Feng Shui

2008-05-22T07:52:00.000-07:00

By following some of these Guidelines we can change, shift and alter the events in our life. These are tried and tested. Not difficult to follow.
Lets start with the basics.
Clearing Clutter

There are different forms of clutter we accumulate. We love this clutter. So time to get rid of all that old clutter. Old newspapers, magazines, cards, bottles, old clothes are a fav in every house, clear old account books and mails from your email id. Minimize clutter. A golden rule to follow: throw away things that haven't been used for over six months.
Fix clocks that don't work. Find keys to old locks or throw them away.They cause more damage than you can imagine.
Clear the space under your bed. Avoid having any mirrors in the bedroom. Even if you do have a mirror, it should never face your bed.
Shelves in the bedroom must be covered.
The south corner of the house is the most important for recognition and fame.Keep pictures of a victory horse and Phoenix in this corner.
Clean the house with cleansing salt or sea salt to get rid of negative energy.
Remove any plants from the north corner orf your home or office.

Make these changes for starters..

Tell me the difference..

Love and Light

Sheela Bajaj

Love

2008-02-14T05:29:00.000-08:00

Love.. Hmmm what is this thing called love. Is it a feeling and experience or just a need. Do always stay in love coz we need it. Is it something in us or is it just a momentry thing. Well we may never know till we feel it. Not just when we feel it, but when its taken away from us.
Only the loss of love can show us true love.

Love is that vibration which connects two souls, the energy which flows between channels of relationships. All emotions root from love. Even hatred. We feel cause we love. We all are love. Love in different degrees, but love.
There are different flavors of love, mother and child, friends and lovers. But the purest form of love is the mother and child. The protection kind of love. I am there for you and will love you no matter what. Unconditional to some sense. A feeling of” I created you”.
When two partners face a problem with each other. They need to become a parent. Love your partner like you would love a child. This is healing to the giver and the receiver.
The most soothing energy. Then two partners can build the most profound connection of all, the umbilical chord connection which can be stronger than a soul mate relationship.

Love is not just a feeling. It’s the bond between the creator and us. Can we create a bond like that with our partners. Creator and child or mother and child. If we can. Love can be experienced, felt and lived. I love you mom.

There are so many emotions in which we live. Emotions rarely live in us. There are usually much larger than us. So there are so many of these emotions in which we live. We become our emotions and feelings. When love as a feeling rules us, we become love, then hatred takes over then we become Hatred. Then joy rules then anger, as so it continues..
When we live inside emotions, they pass. We are small. They are bigger. So they run our feelings. Which come and go. We have no control. Be in control.
Act. Be. Don’t allow a feeling to guide you.
Make love your guide.

SOME MORE ON MARRIAGE

2007-09-14T09:27:00.000-07:00

Why were marriages created? … Somewhere between the primitive man and our great-great-grandfather, marriages were created to protect women and children. Why??? I don’t know! How can it possibly protect them? It may have been created to give families a structure, and to ensure fidelity in relationships. Norms and rules were put into place to create harmony. The same marriage is now the main cause for disharmony. Have we changed? Has the institution become too old for us? Do we really need protection? Or do we get trapped in the name of security and protection??? If marriages were meant to protect and give security, why is everyone hoping to get out of it?
We give way too much importance to the social validation of marriage. A signed contract; a registered commitment, and after that a sanctioned or registered separation called divorce. Why does divorce have to be on paper? Isn’t an emotional divorce bad enough? Why do we wait to be divorced in court? If you really see, most of us are divorced. How many husbands and wives are only living an arrangement? Living a lie? Then aren’t those legally divorced better off?
Why don’t marriages last forever? Were they meant to last forever? Was the magic and bonding supposed to last forever? How do we know what God wants us to do and what God’s will is? Maybe his focus is to teach us our lessons…these experiences teach us virtues like love, acceptance, compatibility, trust, giving and more giving. But we fail to see what he is teaching us. Every relationship has a life span like the relationship between a parent and an infant. Once the infant grows up, the dynamics change and when it becomes an adult, it changes again. That’s how marriages are; that’s its nature. Firstly, they are created by us. Secondly, they exist for a purpose. That’s it. After which it's over. Most people say that it lasts for the survival of the species. But maybe it’s there to teach us aloneness. Maybe to teach us that we came alone and we will go alone. Maybe two people create disharmony over long periods of time. Nothing is forever. Only plastic is forever.

WHAT ARE WE ALL DOING??

2007-09-10T01:28:00.000-07:00

SOME THOUGHTS ON LIFE

The universe was created first, then the primitive man and then the creatures, whichever order each one was created in. Then, the man created the world he wants to live in. He designed it to meet his needs and comfort. He depletes the resources of the universe to satisfy the needs of his creations. Man spends his whole lifetime creating and modifying his world to be perfect. Generation after generation he continues doing the same. Makes toys, then new toys and then better toys. Home, workplaces, cars, phones, computers etc., all these to help him pass him time. He was born for a reason but uses these toys to pass his time. He spends all his time doing this and does not know why. We all are so self absorbed running our respective races that we don’t ever know why we do what we do and what we want out of it. What is our purpose? What are we trying to achieve? Nothing? Then, why run around without knowing? Everyone is just passing their time, just finding toys to keep them occupied. Why do so many people find peace in spirituality? We are all so busy playing with our real toys in our real world that we have no silence inside. We have no knowledge of the purpose of our life. But when we turn in, we get in touch with silence and quietness.

WHY IS THE SOUL RESTLESS..WHAT ARE WE SEARCHING FOR....

2007-09-01T06:40:00.000-07:00

WHY IS THE SOUL SO RESTLESS

We all seem to go through highs and lows all the time. Not knowing why. Is it excitement we want? Love? Money? Success? Why do we want success? What will we do with it? It gives us a high for a while, but we don’t stop there, do we? No way, we have to get more. It’s like drinking water. Do we drink enough for a whole lifetime? But success is different. It gives us an illusion of rising. Does it make us fall? It does, in a way. We become a slave to it, so we fall, and it gives us many negative traits as well. This is the case with most of us. Ok, a lot of things give us negative traits. So, let’s not make success seem wrong. It’s good. But after becoming successful, why don’t we stop there? We just go on and on and on. It never stops.
What are we trying to fill? One’s ego, greed or just a void? Or all? I think mostly the void. How hungry all of us have become. We have no time or inclination to give love. We only want it for ourselves. We can’t get it from humans (family) because we don’t want to give. So how do we expect it in return. How shallow we have become, expecting love from inanimate and lifeless things? We have stopped valuing love in its true sense. That’s why the energy from success is a never ending thirst. We are running after an illusion. We feel so miserable. We feel that we are not loved enough. But have we just focused on giving? No! We are all conditional. We give, in order to receive. And only that works. Love being unconditional is rubbish. That’s only a fantasy not real. It lives in our mind and storybooks. Maybe even in the movies. Everything is conditional. It’s all about ‘us’. Me, Mine, I. What are we doing? What do we want? Are we that insecure? Can’t we just be pure? Trusting the Universe, that it will provide for us. Just live in the abundance of giving and receiving. Why are we so frozen? Unfreeze and be selfless from our center. What is our center? Our heart. Let’s radiate warmth and love. Pure love. And we will unfreeze. Unfreeze others with our own love. Call it divine or evil, it has a power of its own.
I have never understood whether that’s good or bad. It can change mindsets, people, and everything while it lasts. So why is it so complicated? Love is a power. It’s a force. It transforms everything. Some times the situation remains the same but the understanding or perspective changes. So let us love. Let us stop wondering what it is, and love. Love is a force. No matter how much we write or talk about it, we can never understand it. So just use it like energy. Use love to change our focus, our perspective. Look at life in a deeper way. Why do I run behind all the things that I run behind? What void am I trying to fill? What insecurity am I trying to love and feed with fame? So, is being ambitious wrong; is running behind success wrong? No, it’s the reason which should change.
Love and light
Sheela Bajaj

Tarot

2007-08-27T09:12:00.000-07:00

Each one of us face crossroads in our life. We keep blaming our failure on destiny. Is there any such thing as destiny? I'm sure there is! That’s why our life takes huge turns and we get back to something that was meant for us. But we forget that we have something so precious as choice, which can bypass destiny. We keep creating and recreating our life. Walk on the road that life shows you. Jump, when you see a cliff. We will never know if we have wings until we jump. I've seen many who have jumped and have found their wings to fly.

Tarot works as our guide, telling us what choice leads us where. It’s not just about prediction. It gives us insight, switches on a light in the dark. Now that’s the power of wisdom, where the light itself shows us a way out.

With Love & Light
Sheela Bajaj